Maybe having your service is a way she thinks you show love, as in the Five Love Languages. I understand your need for boundaries but if she thinks that service is your love language, maybe she sees you that way, as someone who always rescues her. I am not condoning her behavior at all. I just wonder how else will she try to communicate with you. I almost made a siily call to my H about a pipe because he is the one to fix things. I could not because I am Totally Dark, so I completely understand the boundaries thging. We are no longer each other's emergency contact!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
