It's his barclay card statements. He has used this card when he has been with her in the past. I know it's bad, but i set up internet banking for his Barclay card.(he doesn't know) so i can see exactly what he's spending anyway. Thats how i knew he saw her a couple of weeks ago.
I've asked H before, to be totally open with me with all his correspondence, so i can get the trust back. He won't do it.. I found out why in July when voda phone accidently sent him an itemised bill. (20 phone calls and 80 texts in one month to ow) that's not just a friend.
If he was totally committed he would go out of his way to reassure me that he has broken this so called friendship.