Thank you Sara. I know you are right. I just need to cool off a little. I will send the link. Then the ball will be in his court.
My goal s reconciliation. Acting out of fear and anger has helped significantly to put us where we are now. I need to remember that.
I love my husband. I just don't like the things he is doing. I don't like some of the things I am doing either. It helps to put things in perspective. These circumstances that we have put ourselves in have brought out the worst in both of us.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9