You should talk to him. Without anger. Remember disappointment in a person is much more powerful than anger anyway. Go for the commitment to go to Retrouvaille. Send him the link, http://www.helpourmarriage.com. Communication is the key to getting along. If you fix the communication there is a good chance you'll be able to fix the other things that are wrong. Without it, you are just going to keep digging a deeper and deeper hole.
