Husband and I have decided to speak with a DB'ing coach. We will set up the appointment Monday.
I spoke to my closest friend this evening again about my and my husband's sex-starved marriage, and she wondered if my husband was gay, too, as I often have. She just didn't want to mention it to me because she thought I would get mad. (She met him earlier this year). He is seriously sexually repressed, (grew up Catholic; didn't discuss sex with his father or brothers), and I often wonder if he just married me because it was what he thought he was supposed to do and anything otherwise, he felt he might burn in hell.
The thing is, I would be ok if he admits that he has been attracted to the same sex and I wouldn't have a problem with it. Sure, I'd be hurt and feel like a fool, but at least we both would be happy to move on with our separate lives. If that isn't the issue, then maybe we can still work to save our marriage. Whatever the case may be, at this point, it's either going to work or not.
I'll be back to report after husband and I have had our coaching session.
