Dom, please get down off your high horse. I made a point of saying that my comments on ED specifically DID NOT apply to a man who has not experienced it regularly. My comments certainly do not apply to all men at all times. Your assertion that my comments do not apply to you, in fact, proves my point, namely, that a man who has NOT experienced ED as a daily fact of life CANNOT understand any more than I, a woman, can understand motherhood, even though it is a daily fact of life for millions of women. Just being a guy does not qualify you to understand what goes through the mind of a man for whom an unreliable penis is a fact of life. I, as a woman, don't even understand what it is like to HAVE a penis, but I know more about ED than you do (not more about working penises, but more about ED).
I didn't mean you are an ignoramus (but of course you KNOW that I didn't mean that); I meant that you are ignorant on the subject of ED. Now you're just being nitpicky.
As for not being gracious, just put it down to being a cranky old lady who hasn't seen a good hard d!ck in 17 years! If it was your d!ck, you'd be cranky, too!