So wait, you dont know for sure that there is an affair going on?

I wasnt talking about you missing her only.....I was talking about her missing you!

Letting go is good right now no matter what situation there is with OM. If there is one...letting go is good. if there sin't one, letting go is still good.

I believe that you are taking this well...I have trouble believing you arent a little angry.

If she read this she should know that this is about what you want but also about what she wants. If the two of you are not at the same place then it cant work.. That doesnt mean you will never be at the same place a t the same time.

I agree that you know what you are doing. Keep doing what is best for you. If she is having some kind of affair...you know as well as I do...it wont last. Does she have committment issues that you know of. Can she commit to other things and stick with them?


M: 34
H: 32
M: almost 6 years S: 2 yrs D: 4 yrs
Together: 8
Known him: 15 years
I walked away: April 1st
Wanted back: May 1st!!!!!

Working on me? : NOW!!!!