No. My C says I need to figure out how to say good-bye. I guess that means I haven't done it yet. I have other friends who know us both whose opinions are that I need to definitely not go back with her (for whatever that is worth). Like I said I would need to see changes that, frankly, at this point I don't know how they could happen. She's not going to somehow become attracted to me after telling me for the last three years that she never was.
A small victory of sorts tonight. I was bringing the kids over to her place after having them for the last 5 days (my normal time with them). As I'm backing out of the driveway, XW comes running out waving. I'm thinking, now what is she going to be mad at me about? She says that one of her toilets will not stop running and will I come in to have a look at it? Hmmm. Another day, another time, maybe. But it's been a long week and I'm tired, so I say, "Um, that's not really my department." She looks at the ground, at me, looks very sad, nods her head once and walks away.
Boundaries. Get some. I did.
Will I have to pay for that later. Yup. But she's not doing me any favors in any of the things I've asked for, so lets see how this works.
built4speed My Saga "How others deal with the gifts you've given is not your decision, but theirs." - Richard Bach
