Sara, if she is this affected, going dark might not be a bad idea, no? Neph, you have done so well trying to detach. This isn't really too much different, is it?
I mean, we recognize that they are with another person right now. Having sex with them. Yes, it is gross, disgusting to think about it. Something we could never imagine ourselves doing, so against our morals. But, there they are. It is not so much of a leap when they have stooped so low as to stoop a bit lower.
Seems like he is reverting to his pre-attached days...?
You already left him the message, so he will respond, or he won't. Just let it go to voicemail each time. You don't have to talk to him.
