Since S has left, I have texted him my nightly "good night" phrase, which is "Good night, I love you, have sweet dreams." which is something I say every night to both the children, along with "I love you ..... ALWAYS" which I say when either one of us walks out the door to school, work, or where ever. S hasn't been one to respond in kind, however, D often repeats back the sentiments. It's not unusual for her to say just "Always" when in public or just out of the blue, which is her abreviated way of saying "I love you."
S texted me today, while he was waiting for the school counselor. I found out later that this was the first time he was alone or without his father. A little bit ago, I texted S to ask him how his first day of school went. He replied he wouldn't start until tomorrow..... a little bit later he called me, and again, I found he was alone, his father not going to be home for a while, and he told me about school and the plans/rules his father has made so far.
Dick signed him into the school, then sent him off by himself. He was left to speak to the counselor alone, while they choose the classes for him. In the new school, they have an even/odd schedule, one day they go to class 1,3,5,7 and the next day, they go to 2,4,6, and 8. The new school is set on a vast campus, with over 1600 students 9th to 12th grade, while our school is one building with just over 200 students, pre-K to 12th grade.
Dick hands S $20.00 every time he has less than $10.00 in his pocket and as long as he keeps his grades up, Dick said he'll keep handing him money. S told me his only chore is to keep his room clean, that he now has a computer in his room, and he thinks he is going to like his new school schedule, and driving his Dad's (newer) truck.
He sounded content, although when I mentioned to him that his friends have all said they miss him and hope he is coming back soon, S quickly said he had to go..... oops, my mistake, I won't be mentioning stuff like that in the near future. I was very happy to hear his voice.... and as long as he sounds well, I will be okay with this new situation.
Thanks for all you input.... we will see how the next couple of weeks/months unfold.
Take care of you, God Bless
Love,
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Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........
