I can't imagine how hard it is with the girls. Of course you know it's not *you* she's hiding from, but that may not help one little bit. I'm so very sorry you're having to endure this, especially when it's not your choice.
But do you really know, deep down in your marrow, that laying any of that on W is not helping them, is in fact doing the opposite? Do you really believe it? If you do, then seeing them in pain will strengthen your resolve instead of melting it. If you don't, work on it. Since I haven't been there, I don't know how you can do that, but I'm going to need that advice myself soon, so help me out here.
