OM, MLC and the hits keep coming........Pt 6

[Hope_11]

How have you been, I have missed our chats. You must have had a great weekend, due to being MIA

I've been good. I did have a good weekend. Went to a beerfest with some friends.

Did you manage to get the book I told you about.

I didn't. I have too much actuarial stuff to read for now, but I'm definitely going to get it. I have my first date this weekend, so I probably should have read it by now...oh well.

[Yoyowife]

Let me tell you about how my H grills me. He still pays my cell phone bill. I have nothing to hide. The other night he pulled out the past few months of the cell phone bill. He had starred numbers that were out of town and state and wanted to know who they were.

He also had the nerve to ask me if I had been with another man since we had been separated. I told him I had not slept with, kissed, or even held another man's hand because I'm married. He didn't have much to say to that.

[Hope_11]

Yoyo,
I completely understand. I think I mentioned to you that my H did the same thing. He was even giving me dating tips...you think I want to take dating tips from a married guy who picked up a girl at a bar and slept with her...not so much.

[Yoyowife]

Yoyo,

I wonder if they ever realise how dishonest they are being? If not now, in time to come.

And I wonder if the lying continues after reconciling, because they have been conditioned to doing it so well and so easily, that it may become the Norm for them in the future.

I wonder, I wonder.............I wonder a lot of things

Andy,
That is something that scares me to death. I think if it actually did work out for us, would there be a repeat in the future. My DD 19 has even told me that she really doesn't want us to get back together because she is so afraid he would do this again to me. She said she couldn't bear to see me go through the pain again.

[andyv]

Hope,

Don't worry, I'm sure you won't need the book, it's just fun reading.

Fantastic news about your date, I hope you have an excellent time, you deserve it.

Actuarial reading...............you poor thing

[Hope_11]

That is something that scares me to death.

I think that is where you have to put your faith in God and just be the best person you can be and hopefully, things work out for the best.

[Yoyowife]

Hope,
That is so exciting about your date. You know that you are going to update us as soon as you get home from the date!

[SallyM]

Let me tell you about how my H grills me. He still pays my cell phone bill. I have nothing to hide. The other night he pulled out the past few months of the cell phone bill. He had starred numbers that were out of town and state and wanted to know who they were.

hey, at least he didn't just call the numbers, like my H would have. I have taken to saving numbers in my phone under false names at this point. if its a guys name (like the few that I am meeting up with this weekend), they now have girl-name aliases. I doubt he'll get his hands on my phone again, but just in case, he won't see them as numbers to be concerned about (although why he is concerned when he is with OW and has told me straight out I should see someone else, I have no idea).

[andyv]

Yoyo,

I know exactly where you are coming from. This is one thing that I will find hard accepting. If they can do it so well now, what is going to stop it from happening again.

I wonder too, now she has a taste for the euphoria of being with someone else, what will stop her from pursuing the next OM that shows an interest in her. I know if we build a fantastic R, it shouldn't happen, but that will always be in the back of my mind.

[Hope_11]

Andy,

Fantastic news about your date, I hope you have an excellent time, you deserve it.

I hope it's fun. The guy was already worried about me backing out because he emailed me and I didn't respond. Turns out my friend gave him the wrong email. Maybe he's more nervous than me.

Actuarial reading...............you poor thing

Yes, it's horrible. I've read enough about the baby boom to last a lifetime.