Oh! Forgot to add this: Her moods have been swinging wildly lately- Several weeks ago, it was "love you very much, only man for me" etc. Then, hostile a few weeks after that. She's turning 43 and she did mention that she wants to live her life. Read some other posts that sounded familiar to this, but forgot what the reasons or reasoning was. Like I've said, I've been no angel either- I had been putting alot of heat on her to free up more time and was growing very resentful which I did not make much effort to hide.