I have not left ya. I am on a little Plato and I still have along way to go. But I am reaching down to pull ya up with me. Now that you got your point across to the W....... Would a little "party" at pizza pallor with the KIDS be out of the question? As much as they say they don't want one deep down most really do. I think my W was happy that something happened. It sure was a good thing that we went out last Saturday instead of this weekend with all of the Stuff that happened yesterday. You sound like you are ready to throw on the towel. You know when you are ready. Even though all of our sitches have things in common no two are alike. If you are not ready to call it quits then maybe it is time for us to talk again. There is a fine line between showing her what life would be without you. (No Party) and showing her what she is missing. (A small party with just you and the kids). I am not walking in your shoes. (I would only need one LOL). But I do know if from my W that some of the crap she was doing to me in the past I would just do it back and we got now where. Know even though she does these things if I don't throw it back at her then it happens less and less.
Not trying to preach to the choir big guy just my thoughts
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know