I read Homer. Some of the book repeats itself, but I've found some of what he's written to be helpful.
His comment of "there are hundreds of beautiful women out there" seems to try and lessen the validity of the love you feel for your spouse. While it is important to try and detach (I'm fighting to let go enough that I'm not hurting) to just be willing to say "there're other chicks out there, this one's not important" (essentailly) is difficult.
But then again, some of his thoughts are, as I've said, helpful.
