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[nephartiti]

Before you were separated, did you tend to withdraw after a fight? Did she always have to aproach you first afterwards?

As far as D. If you do not want a D, then make that clear without begging her to reconsider. Make it clear that it is her choice and that you will respect her decisions. Try to do it in a loving non-hostile way. I know, easier said than done. It sounds like you handled it just fine. The ball is in her court if she chooses to go that route.