Women who have had multiple partners know more about a man in bed than other men do (except gays).
IMO that's true in terms of psychology/emotions too. I think most men think that most other men are jerks in bed because that's how they communicate about sex to each other outside of forums like this. Of course, my 2bx was kind of a jerk in bed so I had forgotten that most men are really quite sweet.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
