my H is back after a year of replay complete with the A with a cow 1/2 his age in his MLC. Hes been home 2 months...wants to be home...the ILY's pour out of his mouth ...he hugs, he kisses..we share the same bed, we cuddle and spoon..no intimacy. he told the C he was afraid to. I do not push. he knows Im ready....dont know what else to do.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest