we have counseling tomorrow night. the separation idea is going to come up and I'm sure it's going to be a big negotiation. My ploy to delay is to say i need to speak to a lawyer to discuss this some more before I commit to anything. Is that a 180? Otherwise, how do I drag my feet?
I'm going to work on building my GAL goal list. I think it's correct, once I show this and GAL to her, I think she'll change.