Remembering myself, Part II

[Dom R]

I have a technical question ( addressed to no one in particular): If a guy is struggling with ED issues/performance anxiety, wouldn't it be easier to work on intercourse from an on-top position or side position, rather than on bottom? Not sure why K's H seems to want bottom sex if performance is an issue.

i would guess that it is because it is less pressure.
The person "in control" has an implicit responsability to make sure that things go well.
It is kinda assumed that the person on top, is "in control".

Thus, if he's on the bottom, he is not in control, so it isnt his fault/responsability if things "dont work right".

guilt avoidance tactic.