But if a guy does not get a spontaneous erection, it's hard (pardon the pun) for him to know he is aroused. The hardon is the undeniable signal to him that he is aroused.
Meh...you're overthinking things. (and pretending to be a guy, when you are not, still ) Plus.. you're dead wrong on your last sentance (thats the problem with you not being a guy, an all )
A guy can be thinking about sex... in a positive way.. and not have an erection.
Also.. a guy can have an erection.. and not be sexually aroused!
It is certainly not "undeniable". I just denied it. So there
Originally Posted By: lillieperl
And YOU sidestepped MY question: how many times have you experienced a loss of erection? Don't want to talk about it? How did you feel? What if you could never be sure that your penis would respond, no matter how turned on you might be.
sorry, fair's fair.
maybe once, that I can vaguely remember. obviously, i would be personally devastated, if i thought that would be a permenant state. i was certainly quite unhappy when it happened.
HOWEVER:
I would never be so selfish as to deny my wife sexual fulfilment, just because my balls got cut off/fell off/whatever.
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This statement tells me how (again, happily) clueless you are about the subject of impotence, a subject I know all too much about.
As they say, "a little knowlege is a dangerous thing". You know some things.. but you are missing essential basics. you didnt even know that a guy can have an erection, but not be sexually aroused! So please dont think you know all about the subject, and definately dont claim it to others. It is harmful to others.
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Without the physiological reaction, a guy has nothing with which to proceed (in his mind).
wrong.
Once again, "I. Happen. To Be. A Guy". Your "extensive research on the subject", falls short.
Dont claim to know what is going on inside a guy's mind. Because you dont know.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
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