Above is my situation..My wife who wants the divorce, is always alway with work. She was in town this week to take her sister to a college fair. She never called, or even came home. She stayed at her parents house, took her sister. I called her and asked if she would like to have dinner with me when she was finished with her sister, her Exact words were "I must leave to go back to Michigan (where she is working for now) as soon as I drop off my sister". Then she called me Sunday night on her way back to Michigan, she was nice. She asked how I was, how my weekend was, what I did over the week. How her weekend was...etc. We talked about her job and why she is so stressed with her new hotel location. We must have talked for about half hr or so and then all of a sudden she said that she wanted to get back to driving. I think that she catches herself caring for me and she doesn't want to. I have been reading the DR and I even bought her a copy (dont know if she has even opened it) I have been working so hard trying to get through to her but it seems like one day it will work and the next she will not even talk to me...I know that I should be patient and give her time and space. any advice for me??