All is well with the kids..All if fine with me..Had a great class today..Cat is happy..
As for XH..He made sure he text me and let me know he was on a day trip with his mom yesterday. Now, let me tell you, the last time he spent the day with his mom was probably on our wedding day 15 years ago. She left him when his parents divorced..she took his sister, XH stayed with alcoholic dad, evil wicked stepmom, step brother, brother and half sister..
Phew..that made me tired just typing it.
I think he he has contacted all of us around 8 times this weekend..His tail between his legs..He asked to speak with me last night when D was on the phone with him which was weird. (remember, less than a week ago he told me to f-myself..nice..)
We spoke.I was nice (as usual and he wanted to chit chat. I asked him how his day was..small talk..but I knew I needed to keep it simple..He was at his mom's and I made sure I told him to say hi to her from us..I haven't spoken to her in 3 years.
While I am on the phone with him my S10 comes downstairs cracking up that my old boyfriend, who is now my friend, called his cell phone by mistake to talk to me (it used to be mine)
So, I am on the phone with XH and S comes screaming downstairs laughing about my friend on the phone..Kids love this guy..he is a nut..and actor from L.A. and is utterly a kid himself but soo funny..
We had to switch phones..I am sure XH got a kick out of that..He knows this guy and was always jealous..
So, me being me felt bad..XH all sullen on the phone while old BF laughing up a storm on my old cell.
XH picking kids up tonight..(not his night but we are swapping since he will be out of town, yet again on Wed)
I am flexible..He is happy.
He texts me AGAIN today to tell me when he will come. (which I already knew) but made sure he told me he had an appt from 5 - 6..(and mentioned the town)
Well, this is where he goes to therapy..
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!
He is all over the place..nice, angry, pathetic, depressed, nice angry, and so on..
I have learned to simply pretend he is being normal and speak to him that way..( I do not react to whatever mood he is in anymore..)
So, today he is nice-depressed..
The way weird part is that he is spending time with his mom..They go head to head on EVERYTHING..my head would spin if they were getting along or not..She is QUEEN narccisist.
Ironically, his dad left his mom..Pretty much the exact same way XH left me..In the dust..No warning..for his stewardess he was an airline pilot (XH left me for secretary.)
I do have to say I am sure his mom gave him an earful if he was all down in the dumps..She was so pissed when he left here..it was the nicest she had ever beent to me..It was like I was part of the "club" to her..The club of LBS..
Whatever..
The good news is that I have the night off!
Date night with New Guy...Sleep late tomorrow as I don't have to work and I don't have to get up with the kids..
yay!
Okay..off I go to get ready for the herd of kids to come home from school..
and he wanted to chit chat. I asked him how his day was..small talk..but I knew I needed to keep it simple..He was at his mom's and I made sure I told him to say hi to her from us..I haven't spoken to her in 3 years.
