Thanks for the replies so far. Oh, I do have another question that I need some opinions on: when she threw the D word around, I told her that I will not stop her or refuse to do it although I did tell her that the only thing that I would do is fill in the papers and show up in court. I would not do the footwork or help out monetarily since she is the one that wanted/wants it. Anyway, I'm asking if this was the correct way of addressing the subject??