Down and out...need hope.

[DownNotOut...yet]

This is the dinner with her family, you were talking about right? You know what you have to do. Good Luck. Let us know how you make out. I think this is an opportunity. You could do really good at dinner. Then be apart for a week so she can ponder what a good guy you are and how much it will suck to leave you. I found, but maybe others can comment, that a few days away from the wife at this stage seemed to make her come back a bit warmer each time.

I don't think you need "ton's" of interactions. I think that equals "smothering". You need a little interaction that is positive. Quality VS quantity.

I wanna introduce my own DB concept. Just like there is WAW or MLC fog, I think there is a LBS fog also. We, the LBS get hyper-sensitive. We want it fixed NOW, sooner than now. We get clingy and reactive. I found it helpful to try to see out of the LBS fog and ask, how would I have acted in our first year when it was good. Mix your DB skills with that first year mojo and that is how to play it. Way harder said than done but that, I think, is the ticket.

May the Force be with you.