chicki's drama 4 h moved back, but for THIS?

[not an ex yet]

Hey chicki,
Thought I would drop in and catch up on your sitch. Backing up a little bit, I would have to agree with some others here that if you are having a hard time separating the feelings when you have sex with your H, then you should definitely stop.
I was able to do this with my H for awhile too always telling myself I shouldn't feel bad b/c afterall, he is my H! But now, I think I would just feel used.
Other than that, I think your sitch seems pretty positive! I'm sure it is frustrating for you, but if you are willing to stay patient and let him work out his issues on his own, it seems you have a good chance of making it through this! You are doing great!