Not sure if this is a good idea or not. But me and STBX have tentively agreed to use the same lawyer as a mediator. We also agreed that if this does go south then we go our own direction and seek other council. Neither of us would be able to use that firm then.
I am going to try to approach this with an open mind, but I wont be pushed into agreeing with something I dont want.
This may work out and save us both some big bucks. Guess time will tell now.....
