Oh my.... my two smoking hot lionesses are defending me.

Well...looking at it from my wife's side -- even if we split in 12 mos, aren't we supposed to treat each other well until then?

And she may have thought I wasn't really doing anything, which is not a good lesson for the kids.

And when my wife was deeply in love with OM, she did throw me amazing brithday parties. Strange eh?

I'm telling you she used to be a gem.

But then, as my former pastor told me: she can't expect me to act "married" if she says she wants out. This is what it's like to not be married -- even your friends don't throw you a big party.

The kids and I gave her gifts this morning.

Oh...I got my first offer this morning for a job. I'm still looking, but it takes the pressure off and helps me interview better.

--Alan