A little more history: Now she has had a rough life: First H cheated on her, rough childhood, has always had money problems- most her own doing. On the other hand, I have been all over the world, have had alot of enjoyable experiences and although I won't die a millionaire, I live decently. I know that she has wanted to catch up on stuff that she has wanted to do and even commented that 'you have been there, done that". So part of the problem is that I have slowed down while she has been doing alot of different things. Pretty sure there is not AM, although anything is possible although right now I'm confident that there is not.
