Well, when we have been separated after a fight, I will usually go dark. It allows me to cool off and get my head together and the same for her. Usually after some time, I start getting texts usually saying I miss you, love you, etc. She has been complaining about wanting more space and when an argument erupts, she will play the D card saying she wants her freedom. Couple of weeks ago she sent a text saying how strong and confident that I USED to be. Can't disagree with that as I definitely HAVE lost confidence and admittedly have been laying guilt trips on her for lack of quality time, and uh, other things. When not together, and I rented an apartment 4 months ago, I leave her be. It has worked well in the past and then things go good again, then same arguments. Wash rinse. repeat.
