Well, found out yesterday through a guy that H worked w/ here and will be going back to work w/ when he gets back that OW got married!

She started dating this guy shortly after h deployed. I guess now whether he goes back to the same department and is working directly w/ her or moves to a different department, it won't matter.

Honestly, though, I don't think I worry about it too much anyway. I think that's all in the past as long as we can keep our M on track.

Been thinking a lot about what a M is truly all about. I get Gary Chapman's emails each day and each week it's about a different topic.

What I keep seeing over & over again is that if we make sure we are taking care of our spouse, it should come back to us. It's kind of our "responsibility" to make sure our spouse is taken care of and happy and it should all come full circle. That's the attitude I'm going to try to keep.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10