Give her a card and flowers. IMHO it is the best bet because if she resents it then that is her issue but if she resents not getting something then that will be your issue! If you will not see her in person then have it sent to her. I do not think a bouquet and a card looks like pursuing if it is on one's birthday, only if it is after a fight.
Holidays is a difficult theme in Limbo Land, along with anniversaries and birthdays!
Take care and keep us posted ASAP.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
