Theo, I'm just as confused by her behavior as everyone else. I believe there is a mental illness involved with adultery. Otherwise how could a seemingly good person destroy the ones they love? It not only touches their LBS it, effects the children and other family members. A person in their right mind would know that this is not the thing to do. They would realize the destruction that they would be doing and choose not to do it. They would not sacrifice their family for their own desires.
Theo, you are a wonderful man in so many ways. Your wife is just sick right now and doesn't see it.
Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon