Today is my wifes bday. I was gone all weekend and when I returned, she did ask me about my weekend, what I did, etc. It sounded like she had a quiet weekend, so that's encouraging to hear she wasnt tearing it up all over town. I did get my wife a room at a nice hotel with a spa and a spa credit. I hope she will enjoy that. Also got her a couple small gifts and cards from the kids. We did have a nice 'family' night last night playing a game. She has been rather nice to me, but still sleeping in other room, no R talks, and no physical touching whatsoever. We are going out to dinner tonight to celebrate her birthday. Were not going to see it other much in the next week or so as I go out of town for work for 2 and she's leaving for fun for 5. Not sure how we can get closer if theres not a ton of interaction. I'm continuing to DB around the house as much as possible I guess.