I will continue to share my situation with any who care to read about it. For an in depth analysis on the whole attraction thig I was referring to check out "Double Your Dating" it is an ebook that you can either order or find online. The author has some insight that seems to have worked for me.
I sent the txt msgs before I would call as it is a little flirtatious and it lets me gauge her demeanor and dependnent on that, I may or may not call. I send txt msgs randomly and I think that helps, remember that unpredictability is a good thing, at least in my situation. I believe that each positive interaction is a positive credit that may ameliorate any negative feelings on her part.
Quick Update: I sent some corny jokes to the W yesterday as I had done so previously. Her reaction was positive. However, after my 3rd and final joke, she sent me a text inquiring as to how I liked my new place. Since I can't send txt msgs from my phone (I can txt from a computer though) I called and we talked for about 30 minutes. Nothing heavy or serious and nothing about the potential D. I had her laughing more so than I have in a long time. She stated that she was glad that I called and we were able to catch up. I told her that the phone works both ways. She said she would remember that and would call to advise me how her job interview went. I was the one who ended the call. I think that is important b/c it shows that you have control. On a side note, I could always tell when she was mad at me b/c when she would get off the phone she would simply say 'bye'. However, if she were happy, she would draw out the 'bye' (think southern belle 'byyyyyyyye'. I got the longer 'bye' yesterday.) More to come....
