Angelica, no I don't think I could have this person back now, not just for what he as done to me but mostly because of what he as done to my son, ie taking everything from him that he was used to and indeed to a point he as taken his childhood from him. It is all going through the courts as to whether he can get us out or not, but we actually want to go now and get on with our lives in a nice new place we can call home. The thing that really gets me about his now new wife, is how can she sit back and watch him have no contact with his only child, how can she sit back and watch him send no support financially for his son, if I were a ow I would support and push for the other half to keep up a relationship with his offspring, but this is all her doing because son won't see her, I have to say xh is really really the opposite of what he was and indeed he wouldn't have let me stop him seeing his son etc, she must have a very strong hold on him, and then I suppose if she is an addiction it must be very hard to go against them just in case they pull the addiction away, I dunno.
