Hey K, Last nite I watched the HBO show Tell Me You Love Me and thought of you. There's this married couple overridden by raising kids and responsbility, and they haven't had sex in a year. The W starts therapy, and the H reluctantly joins in. The W is the one who wants to be intimate, but as it turns out, the H has been taking care of his sexual needs by MBing alone.
The show might be something you and H can watch together...might provide a basis for discussion. It's well acted, and the show is sexy. It follows 3 couples with relationship problems who happen to go to the same therapist.
