I am looking for some more experienced members to answer this question. I have been working hard on the R here, and there is responsiveness on the part of the H, but he insists that there is no attraction (no "in love" feelings), so we have no sex life. This is a relatively new development, as we had sex up to the time he told me his ILYBINILWY speech. Is this normal? How can you have sex one day and then have no attraction the next? Does the sex come back? How? Should I try to initiate or just sit back? As he is willing to work on the R, should I just content myself with that and hope that it will lead to reestablishing sex? Wouldn't having sex help create those "in love" feelings? HELP.
