Can I just add my 2 cents worth, what happens when our x's go off and get married to the ow then, my ex went off and married his ow in 14 months, having snooped on his business details I can see she was using xh's name only 7 months after meeting him, he doesn't talk or see his only child at all, hasn't for 6 months, so how is she a bandaid, she has robbed my son of everything and they are even throwing us out of what was our home, I don't believe it is all because he is confused and bewildered because of mlc, he must be aware of some of what he is doing and she is the most opposite of the women that he likes, but she must play hell of a part in his life. just wish she'd wonder off.
