Thanks everyone for your advice. I am going to talk to a lawyer today and see what I need to do. Once again I have survived a sleepless night. I know somehow my children and I will survive this.

ISLH, you are so right. If I gave myself a percentage of the love I gave him I would be so much better off. I have to focus on me and let him go. I know the road ahead may be rocky but I have no choice but to ride out the bumps.


M 32 H 39
SS 15, SD 12, S11, S9, D7, D6, D4
E/A 02/06 WAS 03/06 RH 05/06
On 07/07 told me he wants to leave again.
On 08/11/07 Walked out again.

People say "When God closes a door he opens a window." They forget to tell you "It is hell in the hallway!"