She suggested that true love does things for people even if they aren't responding, and if I loved her I'd have planned a party anyway.
How much can a person take Theo? How are you meant to know that she really doesn't want you to work on it any more? She is inconsistent.If you had thrown a party you would have probably been told that you shouldn't have bothered and why waste the money when you are not working.
I have read and read and read this post. I can't make head nor tail of it. Is she upset because she thinks you don't love her or is she upset because you didn't throw a big party and so her friends will think there is something wrong?
I know I am too soft sometimes but this has really upset me. It's like you are lying on the ground curled up in a ball hurting and she keeps on kicking you. Why can't she have more compassion? Why can't she see what she's doing?
I can only think that something inside her is so twisted or hurts so bad that she has no comprehension of the pain she is causing you. She sounds mentally ill, a megalomaniac.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
