Oh I know it is so hard. I have been through break ups and could have cared less if I had to see some old boyfriend again but this is soo different isn't it.
Yes, he was your H and he will always be your H. No piece of paper will change that you and he chose to be married. He is going through a transition that is painful to everyone involved. But he has to deal with his own issues. there are things you can do to minimize the damage and being here and DBing is the best start. Just keep arming ypurself with DB and DR.
Things could have been so much worse and uglier for me but I am happy with the status quo. My H is not home but people always tell me, " Can't believe how wel you are handlingthis!" I just admit that I am a DBer.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
