Yes it is a major stumbling block for me. But who knows, I might not get a chance to "test" whether I can overlook everything that has happened and rebuild. I keep thinking about what to do if I do get another chance, but I may never get one if she is so happy with him. And I don't think he will end it too soon, as he is "batting above his average" in landing a glamour like my W. He would be an idiot to break up with her.
