There was a be good vs have fun debate somewhere? Too tired to look for it. Anyways I'm in the "have fun" camp because I don't really think you know how to be anything but "good", by my definition, aka the only one that counts. *g* Being "bad" is simply not in your repertoire so you don't need any encouragement to be good.

If you fall because you're unused to high heels you'll pick yourself up again and march on. I'm glad you're having some fun. Go for it.