I've been thinking about this all weekend. I think she is pressuring him and isn't doing so great at being "broken up" with him, but it's consentual. I don't know how H's acceptance of her advances can constitute sexual harrassment - except of course for what you wrote about there being sexual pressure. I think, maybe, the principal didn't see it as such an issue because my H didn't bring it to his attention - the crazy left behind spouse did. I'm hoping H will speak with Mr. Principal tomorrow and let him know how serious the situation is...again, HOPING, not believing it will happen. I think this may be the wake up call for Mr. Principal. He should have and could have done so much more and just didn't. I am truly disappointed by that.

I am really nervous for tomorrow. I expressed this to H tonight. He said I have nothing to be worried about...right.

Thanks for the encouragement, Sara. I certainly don't feel like a goddess and I'm certain I'm screwing this up all over the place, but I'll carry your words with me and pretend I'm the goddess you think I am. \:\)

Me: 34
H: 39
M: 7 yrs
H A 12/05-8/07

If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley