If applied too aggressively, sometimes the good intentions dig you in to a deeper hole.
My opinion of Karen1's position is, the more she does, the less Mr. K1 has to do or will do. Is that progress or trading one problem for another problem?
That is a lot of conjection and what-ifs.
Here's what we know as fact:
If karen does nothing, she will get no sex. This is the only proven fact that we have in the matter at this point.
Therefore, we know "doing nothing" is something that "doesnt work".
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What it would take for Mr. K1 to wake up and to increase his SD for Karen1, I don’t know.
That would be a wonderful thing to happen... but frankly, it doesnt matter. On two levels. First of all.. while it might be nice if his unnaturally low SD was "fixed"... fixing her husband isnt the issue, nor is it something under Karen's control, or even her responsability.
What is a bigger issue, is "what would make him CARE, that his wife is being neglected ,and actually DO something about it?" Him deciding to take care of his wife, has nothing to do with whether or not he personally feels horney or not.
Last edited by Dom R; 10/08/0702:05 AM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle