When you talk with him on Tues., be upbeat and kind. Don`t think of this as the end of your M, look at this as a chance to really do some DB`ing.
Validate what he says and try not to argue. Leave that to the court. Look cute, relax, and be yourself. Treat him as you would a friend. I know this may be hard for you. Set the tone of the evening with a friendly greeting. H needs to feel comfortable around you. He probably feels like you hate him.
My H told me that he had to make his new life work because he gave up his old life for it. He knew he made a mistake, but couldn`t admit he was wrong, although he eventually did.
