Yes I do now feel like the OP.

I only see or hear from H once or twice a week. He talks to her 2-3 times a day. They see each other everyday at work and believe they are seeing other at night 2-3 times a week.

They talk on the phone forever. If (very rare) we talk on the phone it is short and to the point.

Never any emotions from H. I believe he is spilling his beans with her.

M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!