We think this way because we have been betrayed and lied to. Deceit is worse than the affair. We can be transparent becuase we are GAl while the live underground. It is like guessing what a vampire is up to all day and night. I loved that image on Oprah, where the LBS finally knew she had to forgive her WS for having an affair with her BFF. She thought it was some torrid affair but it was stupid and pathetic and over and he spent weekend mornings in a MacDonald's parking lot alone in his car. Folks, that is how we should picture them the next time we try to glamorize their lives. They are eating their integrity with a side of emptiness in a fast food parking lot.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."