Amy, you then should meet the goals set forth by your TH. Ths have seen these sitches before. You are pretty insightful into the bipolar mind. It soulds like you know you can no longer be an enabler or a mother to this sitch. You really do have to take care of yourself and go dark.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."